The most important person shaping your life is you. Every day, you make choices — big and small — that gradually shape your relationships, work, leisure, and well-being.
Because we are all different, our lives unfold differently. Modern science offers powerful tools to help us understand these differences — and to make choices that fit who we are.
Personality traits provide a systematic way to measure these differences among people. By understanding our personality, we can connect our inner traits to many other aspects of our lives.
We choose our jobs and activities. We decide who to partner with, work with, and befriend. In doing so, we create our roles and design the patterns of our daily lives.
Decades of research show that personality traits predict almost anything — from the work we’re drawn to and the friends we make, to our health and happiness. Most people try to build a life that suits their personality.
Yes, people can change to meet life’s demands — but these changes are often modest and temporary. For most of us, it’s easier and more sustainable to shape our lives to fit who we are, rather than change ourselves to fit into roles that don’t suit us.
New thinking in mental health echoes this idea. Many issues may not be brain disorders to be fixed with medication, but signs of a mismatch between one’s inner traits and the external environment. The solution? Finding an environment that suits you.
But personality change is not impossible either — with hard work, and sometimes with help. Most realistically, it is achievable through focusing on specific tendencies rather than broad-stroke personality traits. This is one reason that Personomist offers feedback on many specific behaviour tendencies, rather than just broad traits.
Self-knowledge has always been valued. The ancient Greeks carved “Know thyself” into the Temple of Apollo, and philosophers and authors across centuries have wrestled with understanding themselves and others.
Now, science makes self-knowledge more achievable than ever. Psychologists have created tools to assess personality traits and well-being in detail and offer practical, evidence-based guidance. And most people find the results useful.
With today’s abundance of data and advanced models, progress is accelerating. Personomist is the first science-based toolbox built to harness this progress — helping you to understand yourself and discover roles where you can thrive.